Who broke off the relationship?
Is your ex seeing someone else?
If they are seeing someone else, how long has it been going on?
If your ex is seeing someone else, do they go out of their way to make sure you see them out with their new partner?
When you see your ex in public, do they...
Do you find that you're always running into your ex in public?
Do they show up at the same social events/get togethers as you do?
Do you ever catch your ex staring at you in public?
Does your ex ever phone you just to talk?
If you meet up with your ex just as friends, do you notice that they flirt with you? This may include, touching, sensual eye contact, or suggestive language.
Does your ex still keep in contact with your family?
Is your ex still part of your social circle? In other words, do you still share the same friends?
Word on the street is that your ex is asking about you. Is this correct?
Scenario: You are suddenly dealing with a major life crisis. Does your ex contact you and offer support?
If your ex were in a crisis, would they turn to you for help/comfort?
Wondering how you’re going to survive without the love of your life?
Wouldn’t it be great if you knew they still cared about you – or maybe even loved you? How would that lift your spirits?
While you may believe there is no chance of that happening, the truth is that you could be missing some very obvious signs your ex is sending out – signs that they still love you.
And the strangest thing? They may not even know they still have feelings for you, much less that they’re sending out clues!
This quiz should put things in perspective.
Just make sure you answer every question honestly…
Now… no matter how you scored, there are a few things to keep in mind when trying to figure out what your ex is thinking.
The number one concern for you right now is to not make it look like you need to know. If your ex finds out that you have been asking around about them, then it is going to make you look desperate – and that’s the last thing you need.
The good news is that there are many clues just sitting right there, waiting for you to decipher. You don’t have to go out of your way to find them – and you don’t have to draw attention to yourself unnecessarily.
If you are good at reading people, then you are in a good position to simply take in certain behaviorism and draw conclusions from that. Even if you’re not that great at reading people, you should still be able to see signs that he/she is still into you.
Carry on as normal
Nothing you can say or do right now is going to get your ex back. This is not something that is going to materialize overnight – you have to be prepared to play the long game here. The best thing you can do is get on with your life. At a minimum, it is going to make you look stronger.
You cannot force things. If your ex isn’t demonstrating attraction for you right now, there is nothing to say that things couldn’t change quickly. In fact, if you are able to leave them alone and get on with your own life, you are likely to see subtle signs that they still love you.
As long as you continue to contact him/her, you are unlikely to see these signs. It’s a funny psychological thing: Once you stop trying to get their attention, they are going to need your attention.
Getting on with your life is the only option right now. Patience is key, and if you keep your ear to the ground, you may start seeing those subtle signs sooner than you think.
The signs are there – believe it!
The signs that your ex is still in love with you are everywhere – if you are willing to take the time to see them. One thing you have to realize is that they aren’t going to be obvious. Don’t miss them and ruin your chances at happiness.
Imagine how many relationships could have been saved if those subtle signals were picked up and interpreted properly… Instead, they are missed, ignored or mistaken as something else. After being dumped, it may be hard to convince yourself that your ex still loves you.
Why are those signals so subtle?
Think of it this way: If you dumped someone, would you want to suddenly start sending out strong signals that you were interested again? How would that make you look? What would people think?
Obviously, your ex doesn’t want to come off as being wishy-washy.
Hey, your ex may not even know they’re still in love with you. They could be in complete denial. But their actions speak volumes – actions that you can pick up on if you know what to look for.
Let’s face it, no one is going to come crawling back to someone immediately after dumping them. In fact, you may be getting the exact opposite effect this very minute. Are you being treated harshly by your former partner? If you are, don’t worry too much as this might be a form of over-compensation.
So, you recognize the signs. What now?
If your ex is sending out subtle hints (whether it is intentional or not) and you are able to interpret them properly, you are likely on top of the world right now. Knowing that, no matter what, your ex still loves you. Very powerful stuff, indeed!
You are always going to have that. It will carry you through the coming weeks and months – and just when things feel hopeless, you can remind yourself that your ex still has feelings for you and you have every chance of getting him/her back.
Your mental state
Interpreting the signals your ex is giving off and coming to the conclusion that all might not be lost (despite of the way they are treating you) is going to be comforting. In fact, it is going to put you in a completely different state of mind – one in which getting your ex back is going to seem easy and natural. It will give you the confidence to say and do the right things. That is going to create a snowball effect (in a positive way).
Contrast that with those who do not have this inside knowledge. They are probably operating on pure instinct at the moment – hoping for some sort of miracle. This is a losing proposition in most cases.
If you have no idea your ex still harbors feelings for you, you won’t be in the ideal state of mind. Unless, of course, you have natural confidence. But for most of us, we’ll end up going into this feeling scared, unsure, and negative. The slightest push back from our ex could send us into a tailspin and a negative snowball effect begins.
So, what does all this mean? Well, simply put, if you know your ex still loves you, you are setting yourself up for success. No matter what happens – no matter how much they say they don’t want to see you, you know that’s not entirely true.
You are unstoppable.
And the best way to find out this valuable information is by taking a quiz like the one above. By doing this, you are going to find the truth. You are going to notice things that may have been right in front of your face, but you didn’t see.
Yes, all that, simply by answering a few questions.
It may not all be good news
Okay, so we would be a little naïve to think that every relationship is the same. Some may not be worth saving, and some may have gone too far. Just as it’s important to recognize the positive signs that your ex still loves you, you’ll want to see the negative signs also.
That is where this quiz is going to be invaluable. The last thing you want right now is to keep trying to get someone back when they want nothing to do with you. You are going to save yourself a lot of time and emotional anguish.
If your quiz results aren’t positive, it isn’t the end of the world. I know it may not seem like it now, but it could definitely be for the better. If there are no more feelings left, nothing in this world is going to change that. You cannot force someone to love you.
If you determine that your ex still loves you, then you have some choices to make. Depending on how long it’s been since the breakup, you can put together a plan right now that is going to work at repairing the damage and restoring the relationship.
But you have to have patience. If you rush into it, there is a good chance it’ll backfire. Give them some space. You can do this because you know, deep down, how they really feel about you. You hold the power and you can afford to let them go for a while. Get on with your own life like they don’t exist and if your hunch is right, you are going to see an increase in their efforts to be with you.
Having said all that! There is a chance that you can get your ex back even if they are not showing signs of attraction towards you at the moment. Yes, even if you scored low on the quiz!
One reason could be that it is too soon. While they may feel something for you, it is too soon after the breakup. Give it some time and see if their attitude towards you changes.
They may feel hypocritical if they cozy up to you after they dumped you. While most people aren’t going to be able to hide their true feelings, there are some that are very good at it. Yes, they may love you, but they are not going to show it at all. A poker face, if you will.
For instances like that, you may want to consider trying to use text messages to feel them out. Unlike a phone call or live meeting, you can craft the message to say exactly what you want, without feeling nervous. How many relationships have been ruined because one person simply gave in to nerves and blurted out something stupid while on the phone or in a live meeting?
Text messages are also better than email because you can get their immediate reaction to what you sent. Waiting a day or two for a reply just steals away the synergy of the whole thing.
Best of luck!